Language

The Lexicon

The Lexicon preserves the language of the Lifestyle — its words, concepts and traditions. It records meaning; it never prescribes practice. Where usage varies between Houses or lineages, each is set down with equal respect.

Safety

Vetting

The practice of checking a prospective partner's reputation and community standing.

Definition

Vetting is the practice of enquiring about the reputation, history and community standing of a prospective play partner before engaging with them. It is a widely observed safety practice within organised communities.

Discussion

Vetting varies from informal conversation to structured reference-checking and is treated as complementary to, not a substitute for, direct negotiation.

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