Language
The Lexicon
The Lexicon preserves the language of the Lifestyle — its words, concepts and traditions. It records meaning; it never prescribes practice. Where usage varies between Houses or lineages, each is set down with equal respect.
Alphabetical
Entries beginning with M
M/f
Notation indicating a dynamic in which a male Dominant partners with a female submissive.
Relationships
M/m
Notation indicating a dynamic in which both parties are men, with a Dominant and a submissive.
Relationships
M/s (Master and slave)
A relationship structured around Mastery and slavery, generally ongoing and formalised.
Relationships
Madam
Formal title of address sometimes used for a female Dominant or head of household.
Roles
Maintenance
The ongoing routine care of person, gear and space that sustains a dynamic.
Practices
Marking
Symbolic act by which a person, dynamic or pack claims presence or affiliation with another person or space.
Practices
Master
A person who holds recognised ongoing authority over another within a Master/slave dynamic.
Roles
Matriarch
Woman who serves as the recognised head of a household or house lineage.
Roles
Matriarchal Panther Camp
A Panther Camp organised under the leadership of a senior woman or council of women.
Community
Matriarchy
In Lifestyle usage, a household or relationship structure in which a woman occupies the recognised leadership role.
Terminology
Matrifocal Dynamic
A relationship arrangement in which the woman is the central organising figure of household life and decision-making.
Terminology
MDlb
Abbreviation for a caregiver dynamic pairing a Mommy Domme with a little boy.
Relationships
Medical Table
A table modelled on clinical examination furniture, used in medical-themed play.
Equipment
Mentoring
Practice of offering guidance and knowledge to less experienced practitioners.
Community
Mentorship
The transmission of skill, ethics and tradition from an experienced practitioner to a newer one.
Community
Mentorship Dynamic
Relationship in which a more experienced practitioner guides a less experienced one in matters of practice, protocol or personal development.
Relationships
Merchant Caravan
In the Gorean setting, an organised expedition of merchants moving goods between cities.
History
Merchant Caste
In the Gorean setting, the caste engaged in trade, banking and long-distance commerce.
History
Metal Cuffs
Rigid restraints of metal used at the wrists or ankles.
Equipment
Mindfuck
Play whose primary content is the manipulation of perception, expectation or belief.
Psychology
Minimalism
An aesthetic tendency in rope practice that values fewer wraps, cleaner lines and greater restraint.
Practices
Mistress
Traditional title of address for a female Dominant, used across scene, relationship and household contexts.
Roles
MLR
Abbreviation for a relationship whose accepted structure vests governance in the male partner.
Relationships
Modern Gorean Household
A contemporary consensual household organised on Gorean lines, whether Book, Reformed or hybrid.
Community
Modern Kinbaku
The twentieth- and twenty-first-century tradition of erotic and aesthetic Japanese rope practice.
History
Morning Protocol
Routine of expected actions or observances performed at the beginning of the day.
Protocol
Mummification
Full-body encasement, typically in plastic wrap, tape or bandages.
Practices
Munch
An informal social gathering of Lifestyle people, typically at a restaurant or café, in ordinary clothes and without play.
Community
Mutual Growth
Framing of authority-based relationships as spaces for the development of both parties.
Psychology
Muzzle
A device fitted over the mouth of a Pet or animal-role participant.
Equipment