Language

The Lexicon

The Lexicon preserves the language of the Lifestyle — its words, concepts and traditions. It records meaning; it never prescribes practice. Where usage varies between Houses or lineages, each is set down with equal respect.

Symbols

Collar

An object worn to signify a formally recognised commitment within a dynamic.

Definition

A collar is one of the oldest and most widely recognised symbols in the Lifestyle. It marks that the wearer stands in a specific relationship — most often to a Dominant, Master or House — under terms understood by those present. Collars range from discreet everyday jewellery to elaborate formal pieces.

Different traditions recognise different stages of collaring, such as considering, training, and formal collars, and attach different meanings and ceremonies to each.

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