Language

The Lexicon

The Lexicon preserves the language of the Lifestyle — its words, concepts and traditions. It records meaning; it never prescribes practice. Where usage varies between Houses or lineages, each is set down with equal respect.

Practices

JOI

also known as JOI

Abbreviation for a verbal-direction practice in which one party instructs the other's self-stimulation.

Definition

Expanded form: Jerk-Off Instruction

JOI is a spoken or written scene in which the directing party sets tempo, technique, and outcome for the receiving party's self-touch. It is commonly practised at distance.

Discussion

JOI is often referenced in correspondence, remote scenes, and voice-driven play.

See also